Getting Back Into Boxing After Losing My Way

Getting back into boxing has felt like getting part of myself back.

I have trained in boxing for years, but recently I had not been training with the same consistency or purpose. I was still thinking about boxing, creating content and trying to build RJ Boxing S & C, but physically being inside a proper boxing gym is different.

You cannot replace the sound of the bags, the rounds on the timer, the coaches watching and everyone putting the work in together.

Being back training at Gravesham Amateur Boxing Club reminded me why I started boxing in the first place. It was never only about looking fit or being able to throw punches. Boxing gives me structure. It keeps my mind focused and gives me something real to work towards.

After everything that has happened in my life recently, I needed that again.

Boxing Has Always Given Me Direction

I work full-time in a warehouse, so training has to fit around early starts, long shifts and normal responsibilities. I am not someone who can spend the whole day recovering between sessions.

Sometimes I finish work tired. Sometimes my body feels stiff before I even start training. There are days when staying at home would be the easier option.

That is exactly why boxing is important to me.

It teaches you to turn up when you are not feeling perfect. It teaches you that progress does not always come from one amazing session. Most progress comes from repeating the basic work when nobody is watching.

Running, shadowboxing, bag work, strength training, mobility and sparring all build on each other. Missing one session is not the end of the world, but repeatedly losing your routine eventually affects everything.

That is what happened to me. I did not stop caring about boxing, but other problems took too much of my attention.

I Was Mentally and Physically Drained

I went through a difficult period while trying to build my business and social media platforms.

I trusted people who presented themselves as legitimate and believed I was investing in a genuine business opportunity. Instead, I was manipulated into making repeated payments and was left in serious financial difficulty.

It affected more than my bank account.

It affected my sleep, confidence, concentration and motivation. I kept thinking about what had happened and what I should have noticed earlier. Even when I was creating boxing content, my mind was not fully present.

I wanted to build something positive through RJ Boxing S & C. I wanted to create useful boxing performance content and eventually build a business that could support my future family.

That ambition was real, even though the people I trusted were not.

For a period, I felt disconnected from the person I had been before it happened. Training became inconsistent and I was spending too much time worrying about the past.

Getting back into the boxing gym has started changing that.

Returning to Gravesham ABC

Walking back into Gravesham ABC felt natural.

It is a proper boxing environment with coaches, boxers and people who understand the work involved. Nobody needs to explain why they are tired or why a hard round matters. Everyone is there to improve.

The club deserves the credit for creating that environment.

Training with people you know also makes a difference. Boxing can be an individual sport when you step into the ring, but nobody develops completely alone. Coaches, sparring partners and the other people in the gym all contribute to your progress.

That is why I described it as being back training with the family.

It is not about pretending every session is perfect.

Some sessions feel sharp and others expose everything you need to improve. Either way, you leave with information.

That honest feedback is what I needed

My Fitness Is Not Where I Want It Yet

I am not going to pretend that returning automatically means I am back at my best.

My timing still needs work. My conditioning needs rebuilding and I want my movement to become lighter and more efficient. I also want to regain the strength I previously had without becoming slow or too fatigued for boxing.

At the moment, I weigh around 85 kg after coming down from approximately 90 kg. My longer-term aim is to become leaner while maintaining strength, power and performance.

The goal is not simply to lose as much weight as possible.

I want to find the bodyweight where I can move well, recover properly and still feel physically strong against bigger boxers. For me, that may eventually be somewhere around the high 70 kg range, but I am not going to rush it.

Performance has to come first.

Boxing quickly shows whether your training is working. You can look fit in a photograph and still become tired when someone is pressuring you. You can be strong in the gym and still struggle to apply that strength while moving.

Everything has to transfer.

Rebuilding My Strength for Boxing

Strength training will also be part of my return.

I used to be very strong and I know that properly programmed strength work can benefit my boxing. The mistake would be trying to return immediately to the weights I previously lifted.

My body needs time to adapt again.

I plan to complete two full-body strength sessions each week. One session will place more emphasis on squatting and the other will focus more on the hinge pattern.

Exercises such as squats, trap-bar deadlifts, split squats, rows, presses, calf raises and hamstring work will help rebuild my physical base.

I also want to continue improving my feet, ankles and big-toe strength. Boxing movement starts from the floor. If the feet are weak or the ankles cannot control force, it affects balance, pivots, changes of direction and punching mechanics.

The aim is not to train like a bodybuilder.

I want stronger legs, better force production, improved stability and enough muscle to protect my body. The training must support boxing rather than interfere with it.

Jumps and medicine ball throws will be completed before the heavier strength exercises while I am fresh. The explosive work needs quality, not endless repetitions performed while tired.

Sparring Will Tell Me the Truth

Sparring is where you find out what level you are really at.

Bag work is valuable, but the bag does not hit back or move away. Pad work can build skill and rhythm, but it can also become predictable if every combination is called in advance.

Sparring gives immediate feedback.

It shows whether your feet are in position, whether you are remaining relaxed and whether you can still think under pressure. It also exposes weaknesses in conditioning that may not appear during normal fitness work.

I want to spar against capable boxers who force me to improve. That does not mean treating every spar like a competition. The purpose is development.

I want to become calmer, more efficient and better at controlling the distance. I also want to utilize my strength intelligently rather than trying to force every exchange.

Power matters, but positioning creates the opportunity to apply it.

I Am Building Back Gradually

One lesson I have learned is that trying to change everything at once usually leads to nothing being sustained.

My plan is simple:

Train boxing consistently, complete two strength sessions per week, manage my bodyweight gradually and improve my recovery.

Some weeks will be better than others because I still have work and normal life to manage. The important thing is maintaining direction.

I am also going to continue creating content throughout the process.

RJ Boxing S & C will show the real journey rather than pretending I have all the answers. I have qualifications and experience, but I am also still learning and testing what works for my own boxing.

That honesty matters to me.

There is already too much content online showing random drills with no explanation. I want to talk about why an exercise is being completed, where it fits into a programme and whether it actually transfers to boxing.

This Is About More Than Getting Fit

Getting back into boxing is not only a physical transformation.

It is helping me rebuild my confidence after a period that could have completely broken me. I cannot change the money I lost or the decisions I made, but I can control what I do next.

I can train.

I can create genuine content.

I can keep developing my knowledge.

I can build RJ Boxing S & C properly over time.

The business may not grow overnight, but I would rather build something real than chase another false promise. Every proper training session, video and article is part of that process.

Boxing has always shown me that being knocked down does not decide the outcome. What matters is whether you stay down or start working your way back.

I am working my way back.

The Next Stage

My next goal is consistency.

I want to become fitter, sharper and stronger while continuing to reduce unnecessary bodyweight. I want to improve my footwork and become more explosive without wasting energy.

Most importantly, I want to enjoy boxing again.

There will be difficult sessions, and there will be times when I feel behind where I used to be. That is part of returning to any sport after an inconsistent period.

I am not starting from zero because I still have the experience and knowledge I developed previously. However, I also cannot rely on what I used to be able to do.

The work has to be completed again.

Being back at Gravesham ABC has reminded me that I still have plenty left to give. I am not finished with boxing and I am not finished building the future I originally wanted.

This time, I am doing it properly and taking it one session at a time.

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